It really sucks how our system is set up. My son begs me to live here but, according to my lawyer, his input doesn’t matter; my ability to provide for him doesn’t matter, my wife’s income doesn’t matter, his lifestyle here doesn’t matter, apparently all that matters is that she needs my child support to make her government supplemented trailer payment. This is ridiculous. Something is not okay here. This system is not okay. I try hard to see my son and I see him every weekend and send money when she asks. Still all my rights are hostage to her will. It is ridiculous. I would continue to pay child support if my son could just be happy and live with me. Anyway, sorry for the rant.